What I Would Say

Do you consider yourself a Christian, a follower of Jesus' teachings?

Then why do you not show love to your neighbor?

Or do you think that petty social divisions take precedence over Jesus' command to love one another? Or do you think that your neighbor is anyone who fits into your standards but not anyone who may be different?

Or do you find it preferable to stay stubbornly rooted in a middle-school level sense of humor and view of others as opposed to taking Jesus' teachings to heart and changing your ways? Or does Christ matter to you only in the sense that he has saved you?

Or do you not believe in the teachings of Jesus, but instead claim to stand for equality and the rights of all? In which case, why do you not refrain from judging people based on their differences? Why can you not be an example of what you believe?

If it is what you believe.

Live what you mean. If you don't mean it, don't proclaim it.